This is for those who are going through Divorce

[Cherokeelion]

I have been there...and at the time I thought I was done living life at age 32. Divorce is a rotten thing in many ways, I was raised to never think of divorce as an option. But I have to say, you will get through it. I did it... you can too.

 

The main thing I need to say is, if you have children make them your priorities. They are the innocents in a relationship split. Also, stay away from getting into a new relationship too fast, the chance of bringing baggage from the past into something new is too great.

 

In my case, I sat down and sorted out what I was doing and how I could move on... it was easier said than done. Trust me though, once you start to move and heal the easier it gets. Take care of yourself, either to reconcile or to move on. You would be surprised how good it feels to accomplish something independently that makes you feel good.

 

Most of all, don't despair. Life is full of amazing twists and turns, some when you least expect them.

[Shadows Light]

Good for you. I'm glad you are feeling better. And you are absolutely right.. the children should be made a priority.

[Dako]

Life does go on.

It's like going through hell, but it can also resemble rebirth.

I wish you well.

[ronniegirl]

Thank you- you made me feel better on a night I am feeling sad