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ronniegirl

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  1. mid of my life- yes Labels- hate them- Issues are issues and it doesn't matter when they arrive in life. My question really is when is it over? Lack of sex, lack of communication- to me almost the same category- when do you call it a day in your marriage. I want to make sure this is the right decision. I want to try to make it work if it can. When is enough, enough? I remain confused.
  2. Does it have to do with turning 40 for you? This year I am in a very interperspective mode- I too am not happy in my marriage and I believe it has been as such for awhile however it is turning 40 that has brought my perspective on happiness to the forefront. It is hard to imagine being divorced, especially when children are involved but life is short and we are to make the best of it are we not? My husband does not communicate with me-no matter how much I try, it seems to be tirelessly pointless. I too am wondering what to do and what is the answer to it all. My husband and I are in counselling- at least he agreed to that unlike your wife unfortunately as it is nice to have a professional on your side. I feel, however, the same discussion continues in therapy, promises are made but not delivered. Boy, divorce is a tough decision to make. I do want to make sure there is no hope left. I just don't know how to judge that- do you?
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