Whats happening?? pls tell me.

[mavrick]

Pls help me --

my prob in brief is that my gf of last 2 yrs is confusing my head.

 

a month ago she said that she doesnt want a relationship and her priorities have changed to her family etc stuff and she doesnt want any relationship with me or anyone else. i tried to explain fm my side how much i love her .. no use... the next day she calls me and says that she now understands what i was trying to say and then we again were together -- i went o diff city - she called me twice 2 days fm then for 1 hr ... then she stopped.. i called her for a month.. then one day she called and said that one thing needs to b cleared that her priorities have changed and she considers what happened a mistake (which happened 2 yrs bfore)... and she must have misinterpreted her feelings but now it has no relevence to her.

 

yesterday i came to her city and went to her school to do some work > she was with me for 2 periods and even the rest of her periods were free. we didnt talk much -- later i called her and told her this that i expected her to talk to me -- she got furiated and said that she had work to do and why ppl keep telling her to do this and that etc...

later again i called her and couldnt talk much cuz she was getting very irritated and frustrated cuz of me.

 

today i called her and asked her why was she furious?? she said that there are certain things she dislikes about me a lot. but she didnt tell.

i then asked her why was she pushing me away -- its ok that her priorities have changed but does she consider meeting me a mistake too?? she then had to hang the phone.

 

now pls tell me -- is she trying to push me away cuz she considers her steps a mistake??

pls tell.

[Serendipity1607307077]

To me it sounds like she plain doesn't want you around and it also appears that she has said this by her actions as opposed to her words.

 

Stay away from her and find someone worth your time and effort!

[Danny H]

I'm afraid you are on a loser chasing her, you will just look needy.

That will make you feel worse.

 

Give her space and go off and enjoy yourself, I know it is hard.

 

Good luck

[PocoDiablo]

She either wanted you to get married (it's been two years after all) and you're clearly not getting the clue ...

 

Or...

 

She's met another guy.

 

Either way, I think you are on the outs. She's been dropping BIG hints that it's over but you're missing them...