having troubles climaxing

[foreverurz23]

i'm having troubles even having pleasure when my boyfriend is finguring, he does it light and fast just like a penis would go in and out of the clit. i dont know if there could be any ways that i could get some plessure out of it or maybe even possibly come. there was one time that it did really feel good but it was a position that hurt him and i dun wanna do that again. plz help

[Baffler Meal]

...i dont know if there could be any ways that i could get some plessure out of it...

 

Bring a book.

 

Seriously, just show him what you need- if you know. No need to be uptight about it. He will be happy to learn how. If you can't do it yourself take a day off and spend all day at it 'till you figure it out. If not seek professional help. Trust me, it'll be woth it worth it.

[segagirl]

Generally, women reach orgasm with stimulation to the clitoris. Take the time to get to know your own body, or take the time with your partner to try different things.

[temptedflirt]

let me let you in on a little secret *shhh*.. about 95% of women.. will have trouble havin an orgasam with their boyfriend... (my boyfriend now) is the 1st ... to ever make me... and well.. i think you guys should go over a few things like

him touchin you.. and seeing what makes you feel good

maybe even disguss a few fantasies you may have

that could help with the orgasam..

like even the kinkiest... seriously it does help

[brtf]

just tak ur time when doin it. ask ur b/f to insert his finger slowly and find a spot that fells good it will tak time