I'm sick for seeing if I could take him there...I think...

[darkpumpkin]

My ex text me on monday to tell me he got in a car accident I wrote back and he continued to write me(a first in 4 months) I kept my text short and wrote back once or twice well last night out of curiosity sake I thought I would text him and see if he would treat me like he always has in the past, just ignore it. I got a message right away and he continued to make small talk he then asked for a friendly favor and I agreed, I mean after I found out he was using me for sex while dating someone else I have lost all intrest in him as anything but a friend. He then asked how he could pay me back for this favor and he basically asked to give me sex which I told him no I'm a good girl now and I don't do that. I guess I'm worried that I'm being sick because all I really wanted to see was if I could take him there AGAIN even though I think he's seeing someone other then he was before. I am personally not ever going there again with him as everyone says time changes people but I wonder if he could ever be my friend without sex.

[RooferGirl23]

As long as you continue to give into his sex requests, then thats all he will ever think of you as.. his casual sex partner. If you wish to have a regular friendship, then cut him off! In the long run he will earn some more respect for you... and you for yourself.

[Relationship Coach]

DP,

You are not sick, the fact that you wanted to send him over the top one last time and show him what he was missing is no big deal as long as it ends there. Anyone that uses you is NOT a friend. If there was a mutual understanding that this was sex with no strings, then OK. Move on and stay away from him, you deserve better.

[steff]

he shouldnt have asked you for sex, when i broke up with my boyfriend, he asked me "we can still do everything that couples do, you know, see each other, sex, talk, and have fun together" i was shocked and devestated. and even last night he asked me for sex. i wouldnt go anywhere near u ex, he only wants one thing.