why ex's always cum back

[emma201279]

any one agree with this?

'The reason why ex's tend to cum back after no contact is because theve gone from hearing for you loads almost everyday in some cases- and they know they can basically have u whenever they want. but wen u start no contact it kinda shows them they can't have you so easliy, that your getting on with your life.....and as we all know people tend to want the more scarce unavailable things in life rather than the ones that are easily available....ya get my drift?'

[ChrisA]

I think, in a lot of cases, the significant other truly does miss you and perhaps part of the fear associated with loosing someone completely gets to them when they don't hear you anymore. Does it make them come back? I think its hard to say. I think it depends on the relationship, the individuals, and of course the issues at hand. But, i do agree with you when you say that people want what's not easily attainable. For instance, our ex's

[teacup]

i think the ones that come back were on that line......they were trying to decide which side to hop on and by stopping contacting them....they decide to come back.

 

of course some relationships the other person is so over the line.......they aint coming back!

[lillady898]

I'm thinking it either means you have a certain quality/qualities worth missing, or you tend to attract people who want what they can't have. Or, quite possibly and likely, both are true. Take it as a compliment- But don't be too easily wooed.