Do guys expect a kiss or to hold hands on a first date?

[rachelb]

Is it weird if you go on a first date and don't really let the guy hold your hand in the movie or kiss you? Not as in tell him NO but just kinda keep your hands to yourself? Does the guy think the girl is too prude or innocent? Or is it normal if it's a first date?

[Serendipity1607307077]

I think first dates are a bit nerve racking for both parties involved, and both don't want to move too far ahead!

 

I would say depending on how you hit it off, holding hands/kissing on the first date is a bit sudden.. the first date is "testing the waters" and seeing how you enjoy being with this person.

[Tigris]

If you want him to hold your hand in the movies then just put it on the arm of the chair so its available and let him do the rest.

 

The kiss, well just see what happens. The first kiss doesn't usually last very long.

 

Have fun.

 

 

 

[Amano Ginji]

Is it weird if you go on a first date and don't really let the guy hold your hand in the movie or kiss you? Not as in tell him NO but just kinda keep your hands to yourself? Does the guy think the girl is too prude or innocent? Or is it normal if it's a first date?

i think its pretty normal... most of the girls i have been with have been stand-offish in the first few dates...it really gets interesting..besides it makes the guy think lotsa stuff u no

yeah but there is a high psblty that he mite think ur innocent or just tooo prude..but dont worry!...my advice..its not necesry to hold hands in the first date..And yeah i shld mind my own business..but u shld actually go for dinner/lunch or smwhere u guys get time to talk to each other..basically because in the movie u wont talk much..u get wat i mean!...going for dinner/lunch//or smwhere where u can talk will let u know more about him..even if u no him from long!!

hope this helps

ne ways have fun and good luck!!

[darkblue]

What ever you are comfortable with.

[thefireisoutanyway]

On first dates, I usually don't expect anything at all. You shouldn't feel obligated to hold hands or kiss. Just let things happen naturally.

 

Another ridiculous thing I heard is that it's a rule for girls to put out on the third date. All these rules about what a girl/guy has to do on some n-th date is preposterous. No girl/guy should ever do something "just because it's the n-th date."

[blondjeanyis2009]

most of the time it depends on the girl and how much she likes the guy....

If it were me and I was goin out with a guy I like, then I would definitely hold his hand, and possibly give him a kiss before I left depending on how the night went.

[ShySoul]

Just being with the girl and getting to know her is good enough for me. A guy shouldn't be expecting anything. He should be a gentleman and if she feels like giving that to him, then he should be grateful.

 

Besides, I think I'd prefer someone who wouldn't kiss on a first date. Shows that they value who they give a kiss to, that they won't just do it because its a date but saving it for someone they really care about.