What is going on with the EX

[iamconfused5302]

Hi there,

 

Well I continued on doing the NC, since Sunday. Few days ago, my ex was talking to my friend. She was grilling him if i was seeing anybody. That when she sees me , she wishes she can hold me tight and never let go. I really dont get it, why she doesnt contact me. If she feels this way towards me. Im just confused.

[Ms Omaniac]

it might be pride. pride is just one of those sins that can hold you back from so that you can keep face....but at the cost of your happiness.

 

it could also be she is terrified of rejection. would be me if i was in her shoes.

 

im not sure of ya'lls reasons for breaking up...but there could be lots of other reasons. those two are just off the top of my head. could be also financial, school, cultural..etc.

 

- ivy

[Bethany]

Why don't you contact her?

[iamconfused5302]

Because im the one that always contacts her first.

[heloladies21]

No, that's not it. She still hasn't made up her mind yet and is still confused. Emotions are very complicated to figure out in times like these. Give her the time.

 

Remember, she broke it off with you so she's the one who needs to win you back, and it can't be too easy.

[Bethany]

Why dont you just phone her and say that you were talking to your friend and he told you what she had said and ask if there is any truth in it?

If she says yes, I think you should ask her if she wants to meet up and talk things through. It may be what you BOTH need. If she says no, you got to wonder if she is playing games with your heart and mind and this time 'dump' her and find yourself someone who doesnt play silly games with you. You deserve better.

[SuperDuper]

Well, she's not really playing games.. seeing how she didn't directly tell him. But I see what you mean, and how that can be very deceiving.

 

I'd take Bethany's advice and call her up.. if she wants to meet up, cool.. if not, then say.. alright, cya later, and move on.