Fed up of girls

[Silversun]

I'm just fed up of girls and having to ask them out when i only get a no. and also why can't some of you girls ask us out for once?

[darkblue]

Not every girl says no - or else there'd be no relationships.

 

Girls will say yes to you, too. Give it time and fine a girl which you like and likes you.

 

Friends first.

[metallicachica247]

i agree with dark blue. hes right, not every girl is going to say no. as a matter of fact, plenty say yes. find a girl who likes you... you dont have to jump into a relationship, be good friends for a while then take it further

[Jadtt]

I agree...just be friends for a while.

 

I just had an EXCELLENT relationship fail because the guy was so used to developing a friendship with the women he dated, and we didn't do this. It made him insecure, uncomfortable and pretty much a freak. I had to put up with him comparing me to his ex's so much that I said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

 

Anyway, find a good chick.

Develop a friendshp and go slow.

 

That is my best advice, for what it's worth.

[darkblue]

I had to put up with him comparing me to his ex's so much that I said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

 

Good for you Jadtt.

 

I was once told the analogy: "It's easier to sit in (excretement), than get up and clean yourself".

 

Granted - it's not the best analogy; but it's effective and true.

 

Well done for cleaning yourself of him. No one deserves to be compared and contrasted to someone else - we're all different.

[heloladies21]

It is a fact of life, rule of nature that it's the guys job to initiate the conversation with the girl. Just accept it, no more complaining cause it's not going to change. It's like complaining that you have to eat or sleep.

 

Don't be discouraged. Guys who get the most girls get turned down the most. They're the ones who try the most. Just keep at it and you will get girls. I will pm you a really good site for getting girls too.

[SkyFire]

I'm just fed up of girls and having to ask them out when i only get a no. and also why can't some of you girls ask us out for once?

 

Suck it up.

 

Stop blaming girls for your personal problems. Rejection is something that has to be dealt with.

[Han-Da]

Have you ever tried to be a close friend to her first? Without drawing any suspicions and such? Just being there for her may even assist you in your quest for the girl you like. Giving up aint worth it, there will be girls who will see you for you and might fall for you. Just relax, take it slow.