If you love me then move on : To VietTwinkle503

[dzadze]

what the ex say after a breakup can be super mean !

[neya]

Can i ask what you did? I'm not trying to pry if it's too personal, it's just that i have an ex bf that is saying exact same things that you said in your post. But he did really horribe things to me, so i'm just wondering if the situation is any way similar. I would like to believe a person can change, but it's hard after certain things. Anyway, i'd be really interested in talking to you, and trying to give you any advice if i can. If you don't want to post personal message me.

[dzadze]

me and VietTwinkle503 just travel 2 months in vietnam together I remember

--> I remember one time my ex was so happy to see me that she ran up and hug me so tight, at the same time i was having the worst stomach ache for a while. I got mad and push her in the stomach. I felt so sad inside, with so much regrets, but I never said sorry Now I wish she was here so I can say i'm very sorry

--> We traveled to Vietnam together the past two months, and during this time I was a bad boy friend, I treated like her a normal friend, instead of someone I loved...... I guess I was too excited to be in a different country that I forgot I was with the person I love the most

---> August 23rd 3 hours after we broke up, I went online and send messages to random girls who i dont even know, I guess I did this because I was sad .. i dont even know why I did it ...

---> And one thing I always did that hurt her feeling was, I always introduce her as a friend, and not my Girl Friend, even to my parents, families, and my friends. This I regret alot, I could easily made her so happy by adding one word into my sentences.

 

----> I said more mean things , and did mean things .. But never once in the two years together that I had thoughts of cheating on her, she was always the one I loved so much with all my heart .. She was always there to support me in every way ...

[skyjuice]

Hi dzadze,

 

Sorry to hear that.

The best thing you could do is respect her wishes and really move on.

Make some major improvement towards yourself.

Do NOT wait for her, because a person who could say "No" in waiting for a person has the right to say "Yes".

In this moving on process, understand and learn how to express your love. When you fall in love again, forgive yourself for wrong you did to your previous girl friend and give 100% to your next girl friend. By this, you would not regret that you did not love her 100%.

Who knows in end--many years later, you may found the love of your life--could be her or could be another girl.

 

By the way, there is a book called--Rekindle Relationship. Check it out.

 

Best of luck to you.

[dzadze]

It has been about 3 week since my gf broke up with me. Every single day I miss her so much, my feelings keep on growing stronger and stronger as I try to move on .....

 

Love's hard....