is she just trying to avoid saying no

[jecht]

all right so hears the convo

 

me- hey u want to hangout sometime

 

her-oh cool i dunno i'm really busy with the working a cottaging and stuff lately but ya know whenever

 

then almost rightafter giving a responce

 

her-crud i gotta go ppl need computer

 

so hers my problem do think maybe she does want to hangout and shes busy or shes just saying that cause she does not want to seem mean and say no

[swift44]

i dont think so, if that really bothers you just ask her but not in a way that will make uy seem paranoid but i dont think so i think she may just be busy

[Dannysgirl]

Hmm, I'm sorry to have to tell you this but the vagueness of her response and then the quick getaway immediately afterwards sounds a little like the brush off to me.

[jecht]

well things are getting worse she seems to be avoiding me in school today and didn't even say hi now shes on msn and when i said hi she put her self right to busy and didn't anwser

[heloladies21]

Don't talk to her anymore. Talk to other girls.

[jecht]

i don't want to stoping to her shes a good friend

[kiwifly]

From the conversation you posted it seems that for now she is not interested. Give her some space for a little while.

[Amannamederic]

yeah sorry man but disappear for awhile and do not bring up what you asked her anymore

 

but i am curious, if she is a good friend, and all you asked was hey want to hang out some time, haven't you hung out outside of school before? i don't see why she would say no unless this is the first time you had asked for an outside of school thing to happen