1love2k5 Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 hi. i'm really in need of help of a job/career. i can't seem to keep a job because almost every job i ever had, usually lasts at least one month. every time i go to fill out an application, they say they'll call me, but i never ever hear from them ever again. i've been working at a wal-mart in the state of new hampshire for 3 months, and they let me go 2 months ago and haven't found a job ever since. the job was temporary. i went to quite a few interviews, and i often get a little nervous. i don't even have a high school diploma to qualify for the jobs that i really want to get into. i've always wanted to pursue a career in either forensic art, (sketch artist) the military, (air force) modeling, or acting. two of those jobs require a high school diploma or an equivalent. i think the reason why these people never call me back could be because of the lack of experience of the job that i want to get into that i have or it could be something that i could be putting on my job applications. the type of job that i have experience in is housekeeping, office work, fast food, and cashier, but every time i have a cashier job, i always get fired or warned for having cash shortages in my drawer. it's not that i steal the money or anything-no i don't do that. i'm a failure when it comes to math, and math is my weakness. i'm so bad at math that whenever i was working at burger king doing drive-thru or taking orders at the front register, sometimes, the registers don't work, and i have to calculate the amount of change each customer gets back in my head, and end up giving out the wrong amount of change. (like if someone gave me a twenty dollar bill or a fifty dollar bill) i don't know what to do anymore. do you think i'll ever be successful? i would like to find some kind of job employment agency in my area and see what i can find. any other suggestions? Link to comment
RayKay Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Why don't you get your high school/GED? It would offer some more opportunities and open some more paths up (ie into the military, police force, etc). Even with a job-employment agency you may find yourself limited, as they just fill the demand from employers who often will require high school as a minimum. Look at a long term, successful path towards your goals, not just at the final goal. Don't limit yourself out of fear. Link to comment
Tigris Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 I agree with RayKay. You could be doing some sort of course. Instead you're letting time fly past you. I hadn't been to college for years. I've suffered with depression for 5 years. Last year I went to college to do a Psychology course. I met new people, enjoyed the course although it was hard, and pulled myself out of the depression. I don't think I did very well in the exam, but look what I achieved. A confidence boost. Take control and do something about it! Good luck. Link to comment
DonDonTheTrueDonDon Posted August 12, 2005 Share Posted August 12, 2005 Heres a suggestion; get education somehow. I think if you can ace a business math class then thats all you need at your current situation. Anyway, I don't know any unsuccessful hard working people. So start doing that. I don't know why people don't just lose weight, or just don't quit smoking, or whatever. Just f'ing do it. Never been a problem for me. You act like you care about your career and your future. So take action. Never take a day off from your job. Never slack off. Never be a bum. Go above and beyond the call of duty. Work every extra hour. Make sacrafices. But it is hard work first, and determination and desire. Link to comment
Angelus Posted August 16, 2005 Share Posted August 16, 2005 Send me a personal message and I'll explain to indepth how you can help your situation. Since I've answered a question simliar to this, you can review my answer here. link removed Link to comment
Borashi Posted August 18, 2005 Share Posted August 18, 2005 I definitely feel your pain, back in 2002, I was layed off working in a retail position. I felt completely lost and hopeless, then 2 months later my grandma died. It took 2 tragic events before I realized I needed to get myself together. That I can't really depend on anyone but myself. I made the important decision of getting my high school diploma. I found an online program offered in my state, and I finished all my classes completely online. Maybe your state offers something similar? I know that being able to complete my education online was definitely easier for me, as I didn't have the distractions of high school, and it was a great learning experience, I received my hs diploma 8 months later and have since then, found many rewarding job opportunities. Link to comment
1love2k5 Posted December 13, 2005 Author Share Posted December 13, 2005 i have to say this, but i don't wanna be mean or feel that i'm a discriminator, but it's hard for me to find a job up here in hampton, new hampshire because they act like they don't want african americans (or "black" people) to work. they always have a hiring sign up, but whenever i apply, (sometimes more than once) they never hire me. i've heard that a lot of racism is going on in n.h. there's a lot of "rednecks" around town. i've tried so hard to get a job up here. i've ran out of places to look. any advice? Link to comment
spiderman_56 Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 If you are unsure about the town you leave in and certain that you have used all ressources to have a job in your location , search in another town , search in another city ... give your resume a fresh look and use the web... Link to comment
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