khujo56 Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 Hi Guys I met this girl off this dating website. we have not met in person yet although we did exchange cell #. i think she is a really nice person. the first week we spoke online she seems like a sweetheart. she did say that she believes in being friends first first. which i understand. i see were she is coming from, it looks like she wants to take things slow..getting to know you first. my concern is i think she is a great person, just not sure if i should continue with this or move on. i just need to know what she is thinking. do you think it's good to takeit slow and let her make the choice Link to comment
DN Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 Don't decide anything until you have met her in person. When is that likely to be? Link to comment
khujo56 Posted August 1, 2005 Author Share Posted August 1, 2005 that is what i'm not sure about...i think she has met a few bad ones in the past, so i think she is being very cautious in not making the same mistake again Link to comment
DN Posted August 1, 2005 Share Posted August 1, 2005 Then give her some time if she needs it. Keep talking online, maybe by phone, until she is confident enough to meet you. But you don't have to wait forever. Link to comment
khujo56 Posted August 1, 2005 Author Share Posted August 1, 2005 i honestly think i over analysing the situation..i have not had a g/f in a while..so i'm being very anxious...i think i should back off Link to comment
khujo56 Posted August 2, 2005 Author Share Posted August 2, 2005 i mean not to be so pushey ...i've only know the girl for 2 weeks. not to rush into it Link to comment
DN Posted August 2, 2005 Share Posted August 2, 2005 OK, that sounds good. I thought you may have meant drop her. Link to comment
wynterose Posted August 15, 2005 Share Posted August 15, 2005 I think being friends first is a great idea. Take your time and get to know her as much as you can. If you go too fast, you may end up looking like a 'player'... Link to comment
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