amour_13 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 How do you know when/if a "friend" is really a friend? Situation: Ive recently become friends with a girl who is 22 ( i am 16). I normally hang out with ppl older than me... but not that much older. Anywas, sometimes i just dont know if she really cares about our friendship or if she is just being nice to me or using me. She talks to me about her boy problems and recently opened up about her ex-husband (which she never talks about). I mean she does ask about me and my relationships and stuff, but she has made plans and cancelled at the last minute alot. I am a very pleasing person... and i just dont know... SHould i just confront her and ask her? I mean.. bc of my friendship with her... my dad has been mad at me alot. I just dont know if she is worth the trouble. What should i do? Link to comment
SkyFire Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 You know if a friend is indeed a friend only by test of character. Cancelling on you for the approporiate reason does not apply. Link to comment
Mr. B Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 When times are tough and you need help, that's when you learn who your real friends are. Link to comment
jna35 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 I agree with both posters. True friends are there through thick and thin and even though they may not always agree with you, they love you anyway. Link to comment
LIFE Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 A true friend will stab you to death while looking at you straight in the eye....a fake friend will stab you in the back and run away. Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 True friends stab you in the front. - Oscar Wilde Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 I agree with the others. Why is your dad mad at you? Take care. Link to comment
confused10188 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 My dad is a very untrusting person. He does not trust me around her bc she drinks... but she noramlly doesnt around me. Anywyas, i do not have time to test her charcter... i need to know kinda soon. The longer we are friends... the worst my dad will get about me spending time with her. I do not want to make things worse at home then they already are if her friendship is not worth it. Link to comment
Tigris Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 It sounds as though your dad doesn't trust you either! Does your mam trust you? I agree that you don't want to make life anymore difficult than it already is at home! Take care. Link to comment
confused10188 Posted July 28, 2005 Share Posted July 28, 2005 OOPPSS... I FORGOT I WAS SIGNED ON WITH MY OTHER NAME... I AM AMOUR_13... FORGIVE ME... Link to comment
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