so she asked me out to a fashion show

[petercrouch]

i asked this gal who in the past has always said no when ive asked her out to hang out (4 or 5 times ive asked) weather or not she was good at football and wanted to play in a tournament with us (coz we need a gal) she said

 

no sorry but do ya wanna go to a fashion show with us?

 

now i know the us bit means its not a date, i dont know who us is but i can kinda guess (a couple of blokes and some gals i know)

 

its her sisters show at our college and i when it is, she said she doesnt know but she will buy my ticket for me

 

so i said let me know and date and ill let ya know if i can come

 

i probably can come wateva date it is, but should i? knowing that she hasnt hanged out with me when ive asked and knowing shes an attention seeker who i kinda liked in the past and im doing my best to forget about!

 

what should i say? yes/no? any lines i can use?

 

cheers for the help

[QTpie87]

well seeing as she said no when you asked her to the football and now she is asking you to this, it seems like she just doesn't like football. I think she wants to hang out with you just not at football. If you wanna go hang out this would be a good opertunity, if men are willing to go do girl things they will open up to more guy stuff like football.

if you really don't want to go to a fashion show then just suggest somethign esle. good luck.

Qtpie87

[petercrouch]

I dont think its a she doesnt like football thing for a start i asked if she was good at footy and she said she was!

 

plus others will be there at this fashion show and ive asked her many times like i said out eg shopping cinema bowling and shes said no

 

i dont mind going to the fashion show altho not my kinda thing, the thing i dont like is other guys who are interested in her will be there plus i think why should i hang out with her on her demand when she doesnt wanna hang out with me when i ask?

[QTpie87]

well maybe she's just starting to like you or something like that, idk just an idea.

yeah I know what you are talkign about thought, I now have an ex friend cause of the I'll only hang out when I feel like it and what I wanna do thing. it's disgustiningly sickening isn't it lol.

he'll never call me, but i better call, he'll never drive here to see me, but I better get a ride there, so on. blah blah blah.

well good luck with whatever happens.

Qtpie87

[Mun]

I think you should go to see what's up, but if you are not having a good time then excuse yourself and leave early. Nothing says you have to stay if she is not being attentive enough or whatever.

 

Give it a shot and see what happens. Good luck!