What can I do to spice up the relationship?

[liz22]

ooooooooooooooooooooooo

[punchy504]

I have asked him and he has said no

 

never ask question you might not like the answer to....the fact that you had to ask is answer enough.

 

 

What I have found the best way to keep a cohabitive relationship fresh is maintaining separate identities, make sure you're still involved with volleyball, or your friends or softball, or your book club, whatever. When people move in together they have a tendency to create a buble around them that excludes the entire rest of the world, this is not good. Make sure you're still working towards your individual goals.

 

Maintaining yourself not only keeps your confidence up (which is always attractive) but then you always have stuff to talk about because your individual lives are always moving forward.