question for girls, guys can answer too though

[The1]

for the first dat what would be better a scary movie, lazer tagging, or mini golfing? if none suggestions would be great

[passions1]

Do not see a movie on the 1st date b/c then you won't be able to talk & have a personable conversation. Miniature golfing sounds fun.

[Iceman26]

Mini golfing all the way.

[ShySoul]

Think about what she would like the best. You want to make sure she has fun.

 

Movie only works if you have dinner to so that you get a chance to talk and get to know each other. And you might not want to get her scared on a first date, maybe a comedy is better?

 

Lazer tag would be fun if she likes it.

 

Personally, mini golf is what I'd go for. Tee up.

[RayKay]

Skip movies - bad date ideas as there is little face to face interaction. Laser tag similar, and it would be better to know if she was into it first (it is physically active and might not be her thing either).

 

Go for the mini golfing. Fun, casual, you have lots of time and interaction, laugh at the silly putts you make, walking side by side and all that...and you can extend it after to ice cream or something

 

Of course you can always go hiking, mountain biking, etc instead.

[FaithHopeTrust]

In my opinion it depends on the person. On my first date I would rather go Laser Tagging than to the movies or golf.

Though golf would be fun also. Definetly no movies until you and your date are into each other more.

[Sexychiick16]

either one. Try something spontaneous, it all is depending on your

intentions of the girl.

[koolaidnovel]

YAY for mini golfing!!! It's so fun because you can be silly and relaxed and talk at the same time. Movies...no. It's hard to try to get to know someone better while you're staring at a screen.

[marijo2480]

I say Laser Tag! Woo hoo! Hope you guys have fun!

[Iceman26]

Laser tag is fun, and a good date, but not a good first date. You dont get much of a chance to talk or get to know each other running around and shooting each other.

[marijo2480]

I disagree. I think if you want to talk, you can talk in the car, on your way to laser tag, after laser tag, etc. It's just something fun to do!

 

Either way, it's dependent upon the two people on the date and how spontaneous they are.

[ShySoul]

Downside to lazertag: What's a better way of saying I like you then trying to shoot the person?

 

Then again, once you get the trying to kill each other thing out of the way, the rest of the relationship should be no problem.

 

Seriously, where you go isn't so important as long as you are together and you have fun.

[LilMiss]

mini golfing is cool.

 

You can play and chat, without having to yell, and there's glow in the dark mini golfing too, with music and blacklights. It's trippy and lots of fun.

 

Or if your the driving range is really fun too. Yes, I said the driving range.

When you finally that golf ball nice & clean....it's a great feeling and that person will be feeling good on your date, so bonus for you.....*heehee*

[easyguy]

....it's a great feeling and that person will be feeling good on your date' date=' so bonus for you.....*heehee*[/quote']

 

And an even bigger bonus if you're on the golf team and can show her how you REALLY play. 8)