ZebDed Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 I sent her a quick text Friday asking her out, and her response was "Hey With pleasure. I'm not sure of my work schedule for next week, I will let you know". So, to me, that's a rejection, but then that very night we're having sex and we spent most of Saturday at her place. Should I wait until she texts me? Should I move on? Should I text her? Link to comment
ForeverLearning Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 2 minutes ago, ZebDed said: I sent her a quick text Friday asking her out, and her response was "Hey With pleasure. I'm not sure of my work schedule for next week, I will let you know". So, to me, that's a rejection, but then that very night we're having sex and we spent most of Saturday at her place. Should I wait until she texts me? Should I move on? Should I text her? Maybe her work schedule is actually uncertain for next week? What does she do for a living? Also what is she to you? A fwb? Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 What do you want? Casual sex or a relationship? Once you know then you can see how this develops and then decide. What is the rush? Stop making things so complicated and get out of your own head. Lost Link to comment
ZebDed Posted April 25, 2021 Author Share Posted April 25, 2021 20 minutes ago, ForeverLearning said: Maybe her work schedule is actually uncertain for next week? What does she do for a living? Also what is she to you? A fwb? She works for the company that neighbours mine. For the moment, she's someone I like, but would also like to date. Link to comment
ZebDed Posted April 25, 2021 Author Share Posted April 25, 2021 13 minutes ago, lostandhurt said: What do you want? Casual sex or a relationship? Once you know then you can see how this develops and then decide. What is the rush? Stop making things so complicated and get out of your own head. Lost I would like to get to know her, date her, and then who knows. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 Well then the next time you have sex and are having pillow talk tell her that. Sometimes relationships start kind of backwards where physical intimacy comes first and then emotional intimacy comes later. Give it some time and if you are spending most of a day with her then be spontaneous. "Hey lets go have lunch at ___________" Then that is a date out in public right? If she always just wants to stay in and suggests getting take out or delivery then you can start rethinking her interest level in you as far as a relationship goes. Relax and let things happen instead of analyzing everything. Lost Link to comment
whiteroses3230 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 Why would you move on???? HOW would that even be a thought crossing your mind? She kept plans with you, she had sex with you, you like her and want to date her. So keep contact, keep dating her, pursue her and date her. Link to comment
Mindyjo Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 The ball is in your court boy grab it and play with it!! Link to comment
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