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  1. Come on man, I was *asleep* at *4am*.
  2. she's obviously having a meltdown
  3. Ex boyfriend now. So this is how it’s gone. Her: “But Aaron are you really leaving??” Me: “Yup. Why do you care?” Her: “Do you have 2 mins?” (I didn’t answer. Thought I’d wait till tomorrow - not because I want to play games, just because it was 11pm and I was tired) Her, at 2am: “I’m so sorry, I didn’t want to bother you, I just wanted to talk about what’s going on. My door is always open, especially for you. Whenever you want to come” Her, at 4am: “You know if you don’t want to talk, you can just tell me”
  4. This is our text conversation: Her: "But Aaron are you really leaving??" Me: "Yup. Why do you care?" Her: "Have you got 2 mins?" I haven't answered Her: “I’m sorry I didn’t want to bother you, just to talk to you about what’s happening. You know my door is always open, especially for you. Come when you want”
  5. Suddenly, the girl from my first thread on these forums sent me a message "But (my name) you're really leaving??" I resigned from work on Monday due to the complications with my dad, and i'm busy planning my trip back to see him. Why the *** does she even care if I'm leaving? We haven't spoken in weeks...
  6. I used to pull all nighters with work at 7am three days in a row. Right now, with COVID this isn't possible anymore unfortunately, and I don't think my body can handle it anymore anyway lol
  7. Thank you very much, I appreciate that
  8. So she said she'll get in touch when she knows what time Thursday. I will leave it at that. I've now got to plan my return tickets and all back to France which is a pain in the arse because I'm not vaccinated, need a COVID test under 24 hours and so I'm thinking of taking a coah back which is 15 hours...
  9. Right, yes, it does seem to be who she is.
  10. Yeah exactly. I've had girls in the past jerk me around and try to change my schedule to fit theirs. That's why I ask them what their schedule is like next week so that I can pick a day that suits her and I and set a definite date. As soon as she started telling me that we might do it later but she doesn't know that she might be able to do it earlier... I've got no time for that at all. What do you mean by 'flighty' btw?
  11. if she bails on Thursday, I'm not going to bother asking her out again. I've had to resign from work so that I can go take care of my dad in France who just had a serious bike accident.
  12. Yeah, it used to be like for me too, but you know with COVID about things shut at 9pm here, and going out for 1 hour is lame as.
  13. She's really not being clear with me. She's like she can do Thursday but she doesn't know if it'll be 8pm (too late for me) or way before. I just said "Cool! Well let me know how your Thursday ends up looking like or otherwise we'll just do it some other time". It's taken 4 days and there isn't a definite date. I'm not wasting my time anymore
  14. OK so I told her I was free Thursday and set it up at 7m at X place. She told me she could make it then, but she also asked if I was free another day. I told her I'm free Thursday and Friday at the same time. So I'll leave it at that and see how she responds
  15. It just seems odd, especially nowadays, to not have internet access. I admit I'm wrong for overthinking this. I sent her "Great! let me know when you've made your plans for this week and we can set up something fun then :)" Her reply: "What would help is you tell me when you're free then I can slot you in lol :D"
  16. About 15 mins after I posted she got in touch. She told me she had been out all day yesterday and had no internet (probably bs). She said she’s definitely up for another date though. I’ll ask her to get in touch once she figures out her schedule.
  17. So I got a text out of the blue last week from a girl I had flirted with at this party 3 weeks ago. After 2-3 exchanges I set a date and we went out last Wednesday. Thought it went quite well, good laugh, good conversations, banter, etc... and then 30 mins when I got home I got a text from her thanking me for the great evening and hoping I enjoyed it too. Honestly, nothing made it seem she would fall off the face of the world. A couple days or so later (yesterday) I sent her a text asking when she was likely to be free next week... no answer. I haven't sent anything else. I guess I completely misundertood this.
  18. They broke up at the end of last month
  19. Sorry, yeah I missed your post She's the same women
  20. Yeah, I truly screwed up. We met a couple of weeks ago, I apologised, we laughed about it, joked around, she teased me and I went in for the kiss. After the kiss she told me to please never talk about private stuff again.
  21. OK, so basically what I did was talk about things she and I did together to other friends. Things I should definitely have kept private. It is good she reschudled, and I admit it does sound kind of suspect. I think the message I sent her ("No problem 🙂 We'll just do it some other time. Have a nice evening.") triggered something. If she wasn't interested in me anymore and didn't want to see me her response would have been a luckwarm "OK sure let's do it some other time". If she cancels this time, I'll never bring up getting together again.
  22. Told her I could no longer do tonight, set a date for Thursday 8pm at X restaurant. I'm going to the party in like 10 mins Thanks dude!
  23. Lo and behold... She's rescheduled... She's told me her schedule for next week... she's even asked if we can still do it tonight. I'm not going to cancel the party I'm going to, that's for sure - he's a great friend who asked me a couple days ago, I told him if my plans (the date) fell through I would go.
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