NC 3 weeks

[Dave88]

Hello.

 

My ex g/f and I split about 1 1/2 months ago.

I never pleaded but spoke about how we both needed to sort ourselves out for about 3 weeks.

I then when no contact and have been for around 3 weeks now.

She blocked me on fb for a day within 1 week of the split and then unblocked me.

Then a week into nc she blocked me on fb again.

After another 2 weeks into nc she has unblocked me again on fb. The reason i know this is because when i go on messanger it comes up with people you have spoken to in the past and she came up.

 

Anyway curiosity got the better of me and i checked her profile. The day she unblocked me she started posting quotes like you are forgotten now and past is the past ready for the future.

 

I am doing nc for myself to better myself and give her the time she needs and maybe pne day we can sort things out for the better.

 

She is still on a dating site as well.

 

My question is why unblock someone to rub it in with quotes like that?

It hasnt gotten to me to much but i am curoius if the nc is working or if she just wants to rub it in.

The breakup wasnt bad and i was always a good b/f to her.

[reinventmyself]

Break ups bring out the pettiness in some people. If she was all that secure she wouldn't be baiting you.

True NC is not only not communicating with someone but it's also about not watching their activity.

[Jillstrand23]

Hello.

 

My ex g/f and I split about 1 1/2 months ago.

I never pleaded but spoke about how we both needed to sort ourselves out for about 3 weeks.

I then when no contact and have been for around 3 weeks now.

She blocked me on fb for a day within 1 week of the split and then unblocked me.

Then a week into nc she blocked me on fb again.

After another 2 weeks into nc she has unblocked me again on fb. The reason i know this is because when i go on messanger it comes up with people you have spoken to in the past and she came up.

 

Anyway curiosity got the better of me and i checked her profile. The day she unblocked me she started posting quotes like you are forgotten now and past is the past ready for the future.

 

I am doing nc for myself to better myself and give her the time she needs and maybe pne day we can sort things out for the better.

 

She is still on a dating site as well.

 

My question is why unblock someone to rub it in with quotes like that?

It hasnt gotten to me to much but i am curoius if the nc is working or if she just wants to rub it in.

The breakup wasnt bad and i was always a good b/f to her.

 

You are broken up, stop checking her FB and move on if you really try hard, you can do it. Just give it time. goodluck