JohnAsby Posted August 7, 2017 Share Posted August 7, 2017 Me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up about 2 months ago. I first broke up with her momentarily bc i had caught her in a lie but i immediately took it back. But i guess her pride was hurt and she turned around and broke up with me that same day. Over the course of those two months, we would see each other and have sex a couple times. She would tell me she loved me and I would do the same (not healthy, i know) we would call each other babe and it was really odd but i rolled with it bc she was too. However, after the first month, i started noticing a change in her, she hates going out to bars and clubs, but she was now doing it every chance she got. I never made it a big deal, but i knew she was going out to hang out with a guy from work that had just put in his 2 weeks notice. He was getting ready to move to another city. Anyway, i saw her last week, and she confirmed that it was a thing between her and that guy from work. More like a fling bc they both knew he was moving. She told me she had sex with him one time. Hes now in a different city. And she told me that it didnt mean anything to her, that she was just using him to distract her from all the turmoil between us. And that she didnt want to deal with it. But now shes telling me that she misses me and that she loves me and that im her soulmate and what not. Dont get me wrong, i love this girl to death and we do have a deep connection when things arent going south. But the timeline is what throws me off. She is telling me she loves me and that im the one for her, right after the guy from work moved away. Am i reading to much into it and should i get back with her? Or should i cut her off completely? I dont know what to do bc i do love her i feel like she was wrong for turning her back on me. Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.