Idontknowj Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Okay. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and in the beginning he was the one who was all over me, he would often get jealous of me or insecure about me taking interest in other guys. I didn’t really care much however because it wasn’t too serious of a relationship to me. However, once we started getting more serious I developed strong feelings for him and now I’ve gotten to a point where I actually care about him a LOT. This meant that I started getting extremely jealous and now it’s gotten to the point where when he follows a girl on instagram it makes me so mad. My jealousy caused me to start snooping on his phone (I know it’s really bad, I’m trying my best to stop) and I’ve found pictures of girls from before we dated but I still get bitter over it. On top of that, I’ve found other things from his past that angers me and even things just like him searching up and liking pictures of girls while we were dating makes me really angry. We've been fightng so much lately and before he used to be a rational fighter and reasonable while i used to be more on the stubborn side, but now all of thats gone and its both of us butting heads and being equally stubborn or almost the other way around. Every time i rethink about him being even attracted to any other girl i develop a strong bitterness towards anything relevant to the type of girls he looks at or things that remind me of it, and it makes me bitter towards him almost to the point where i want to break up with him because i dont feel he makes me feel like im enough. Am I being reasonable? I do know im being quite stubborn i just need someone to tell me what to do im honestly just completely lost. Link to comment
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