jackharty98 Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 I'm 18 years old and I've been with this girl for over a year and we really care about each other, I'm fully convinced I love the girl and she feels the same way. Now we do live a fair distance from each other but I can get two buses to get out to her house and we're able to meet each other in town easily enough, we dont see each other all that often but it's once every few weeks and it's not that hard when we do. Although my parents have never really been very supportive of the relationship because they wanted me to focus on school and I think there are other reasons too I'm just not fully aware of, now you can imagine how this made my girlfriend feel since day one, she feels like my parents hate her which isn't good for anyone. They haven't even met her yet. Now over easter they went out of the country for two weeks so I decided to have her over to my house for a few days and she stayed and we had so much fun, I've never felt so right in my life but then that soon came to an end it was only two weeks. Then it got bad. It turns out that one of my neighbours saw us when we went for a walk one of the mornings she was at my house and they told my parents and when they found out they completely freaked. I haven't seen the girl since. They've told me they're no longer supporting me at all with the relationship as what we did was just a complete lack of respect and betrayal of trust and they were asking me how do I expect them to be okay with me being with someone who would do that to their partners parents when they don't even know them. It's been like two months now and we've broken up because my parents won't let us see each other and it honestly tearing me apart. I know what we did was very sneaky and deceitful but Jesus we're young we make stupid mistakes, I don't think we deserved this. I wouldn't wish how I feel right now on my worst enemy let alone my child. I've never felt so down and heartbroken about anything in my entire life I've been crying myself to sleep quite regularly and she's been doing the same all we want to do is be together but we can't. It is honestly the worst feeling I've ever felt and it's all because of my parents and they just won't change their opinion. I have no idea what to do anymore because the only thing I can think about is her 24/7 and it's eating me alive.. when I'm alone all I do is cry, when I hear songs that we both used to listen to together I just break down and it's not stopping. Me and the girl are still talking regularly because of the fact that there's no bad blood between us or anything but we just both want to be together and we're absolutely heartbroken and we only feel like this because of my parents. I just love and miss her so much and I really don't know what to do anymore. Link to comment
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