cheating dumper still contacts me even on 1 month NC

[phoenixlyza7]

Been dumped 4 months ago and i've changed my number so that i can go on LC. I kept my email open for him for official business and he reached out on april. I have been on complete NC successfully for a month but still his emails persisted even if i dont reply to him anymore. his emails are just one word terms of endearment. why does he keep on emailing? is this guilt?

[Nikego]

One word terms of endearment?.. Now that sounds almost cruel? Kind of weird if you ask me. Id try to move on from him.

[ParisPaulette]

Nope, he's fishing to see if he can use you for backup. Chronic cheaters tend to have rather large egos that need a lot of feeding. They need to know that they could still "get you" should they so choose, because it makes them feel better about themselves.

 

It's a really rotten thing to do. Just set up a folder in your email that all his emails go to, and periodically delete it. It's not guilt, not even close.