I want him to go further, but how?

[Uniquely_Pink]

Hey! Me and my bf have kissed and all that, but i always like put my hands slightly up his shirt but he just like wraps his arms around my waist but i want him to like go further, just not like sex! Just like more flirty, guys, what would you like a girl to do to make you more intrested? Coz` i just want a bit more attraction between both of us. Help!

[fallslikerain]

he's probably just nervouse because in this day of sex harasment suites and what not he might be uncertain if you want him too or not. Easiest thing to do is to just take his hand and place it on your chest, that should give him the idea

[CarrieB123]

Well if he takes your hands and puts them on him, do the same, most likey he may be shy/scared about moving forward, but if you lead him hopefully he will follow!

[Uniquely_Pink]

I have done before, i have moved his hands on either my stomach, hips or the chest bit below my neck, but all he does is move his hands back around my waist! Lol! I Do lead him but he obviously doesn't seem to react very well. I do not see him as a shy guy...but i don't know.

[CarrieB123]

Maybe he's gay. Just kiddin. But maybe he's not ready yet, which you either need to respect or move on, cause you wouldnt want him to pressure you, would you?

[weatherbuff1]

Let him know. Let him know its okay to put his hands elsewhere on you... Give him some signs, and let him know what feels good too when he does. Put his hands on you if you want.. Lead him on, so he knows it is okay. Giggle or make a moaning noice while making out to let him know you like it.

[providentielle]

TELL HIM how you feel!

[jaiva]

Every relationship is based on communication and commitment. Tell him what you'd like to happen and if he's ready for that he'll be willing to do that.

 

Hope I helped!

 

Jaiva

[blgbird]

hey, i might help with this, but i was the same way with my first girlfriend, even if she led i was scared that she didn't really want, and that if i did something wrong it would ruin the "mood" and we would stop whatever we were doing. but after a while she outright told me bluntly that she wanted me to go further than what we were doing, and after that it was great we both had fun, so if you want it to move forward, just tell him, i think guys really appreciate it when you tell them what you like and what you don't, and you usually only have to say it once. so hope this helps

 

don't forget, communication is key for relationships to be worthwhile for both parties.