Is my brother in the way of my happiness?

[jessijess]

I met one of my brother's friends a while ago & we;ve been hanging out alot lately. We lay in bed together 1/2 naked, grab each other's butts, ect all the time but haven't even kissed. We talk about wanting to hook up & we tell each other that its going to happen (my new thing is that it won't happen until we're it the retirement home!), but still nothing. Last night he supposidly told a friend of mine that he likes me but is afraid of my brother.

I really like this guy. I;ve tried every way possible to make sure he knows my brother wouldn;t mind. Told him that I've dated his friends before, that he;s learned to stay out of my love life, ect.... How do I find out if that comment was a cop out or not?

[iluvkeatin]

i would jus wait til next time ya'll were laying there n i'd jus kiss him! n tell im how u feel!

[DN]

Afraid of your brother in what way? Scared that he might lose his friendship or that he might get beaten up?

[jessijess]

I think just afraid of disrespecting my brother. definitely not afraid of gettnig beat up though.

[iluvkeatin]

u should try to get you're brother to talk to him! that way he KNOWS 4 sure... that he's o.k with it.

[jessijess]

So do you think he really feels that way & isn't using it as a cop out excuse?

[DN]

The only way to know is to ask him. Tell him your brother is no problem so if he doesn't want to go out with you all he has to do is be honest and tell you.

[iluvkeatin]

ya it seems like he DEFINTLY likes u... jus tell him exactly how u feel and get u're brother to talk to him.. i'm sure things will work out 4 da best if u do.

[Hrtlessbabe]

When he said hes "afraid of your brother", it suppose to mean he dont' want to disrespect him. So he just have to be a man and go up to your brother and ask your brother if he can get to know you. If he doesn't have the balls, then he just want to have a fling w/you and nothing more.