popa4u Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 There was this girl I have dated for 4 yrs and as soon as we made marriage arrangement to get married, we realized we were cousins. We have no option than to go our separate ways. This whole thing is killing me emotionally. Am very emotional and she is not emotional as me. She has gain the acceptance but am still battling with it. I told her I need space to heal but she doesn't want to understand. She says it's not fair cos we did nothing wrong to each other so it shouldn't call for space. But whenever I talk to her and sees her, I get emotional by falling in love all over again. She has taken advantage of that and talks to me any how she likes. One important thing is that, I am the one who takes care of her of all her needs financially and whenever I ask for space, she opposes to that. Am really emotionally drained. I really need an advice as in what to do. Anyone please help. Link to comment
Gary Snyder Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Well, sometimes it's recommended to cut contact so that you can heal and move on. Sorry she turned out to be your cousin. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 How did you find this out?There was this girl I have dated for 4 yrs and as soon as we made marriage arrangement to get married, we realized we were cousins. Link to comment
popa4u Posted January 31, 2017 Author Share Posted January 31, 2017 How did you find this out? When we went to meet the family members that is how can we found out. Through out the dating, we haven't met anyone till we were ready to get married. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 31, 2017 Share Posted January 31, 2017 Tragic discovery. Are you first cousins? When we went to meet the family members that is how can we found out. Through out the dating, we haven't met anyone till we were ready to get married. Link to comment
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