gvdobson Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 This is an intersting situation. I called a girl Monday, and asked her out. Nothing specific, so no pressure. She asked me MY number, said she would call me, and told me that she would give me her number when she had one(she just moved in). She visits her mother on Sunday and Monday, so I CAN call her there(that's how I got hold of her initially). My question is, how long do I wait before trying to get hold of her again. I know it's only been two days, but I can't help but get antsy. She did say yes about going out some time, and she told me her schedule, as well as asking me MY number. My plan was to wait until a week after I first called. I think this is the right way to go, giving her space and all, but I'm really just worried about her calling me at all. I shouldn't worry, but that's a little bit impossible for me. Link to comment
SouthernSon Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 My input is to stop getting so anxious about it. You are working yourself up too much in wanting to talk with this girl. I can understand the desire that you may really like her, but try to explore your options. For one if you go out and try to meet other girls right now you'll probably have a better time meeting them instead of sitting by the phone all day waiting for that call that may never come. If she does call, great, you can take it from there. If not, how long will you continue to wait for her to call? Seriously, you need to stop worrying so much over it and try to get out and meet more people. You're not exclusive with anyone yet so give it a try. Link to comment
justsweetgirl Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 I think you have to realize it is her loss if she does not call. She has everything to gain by getting to know you. If not, someone else will see it that way. Link to comment
gvdobson Posted March 30, 2005 Author Share Posted March 30, 2005 It would help if there were other people out there to meet. The big problem I have right now is where I live. My little hometown has everything I need, except a decent(or any to be frank) female population that I would be attracted to. So my options are kind of non-existant right now. But you guys are right about me worring too much. That doesn't mean that I won't check up on her when the time is right. I'm not going to rush this, but I'm also not going to sit on my hands and let a good opportunity pass me by. It's been too long since anyone I really like was available around here. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 My general rule is call them when it is convient for you, and when you have something you want to say. That said, i agree with the others. stop freaking out - it doesn't do any good. Link to comment
SouthernSon Posted March 30, 2005 Share Posted March 30, 2005 It would help if there were other people out there to meet. The big problem I have right now is where I live. My little hometown has everything I need, except a decent(or any to be frank) female population that I would be attracted to. So my options are kind of non-existant right now. But you guys are right about me worring too much. That doesn't mean that I won't check up on her when the time is right. I'm not going to rush this, but I'm also not going to sit on my hands and let a good opportunity pass me by. It's been too long since anyone I really like was available around here. Hey man I know where you're coming from. I lived in a small town a lot of my life and I suppose I was lucky that there were plenty of females around, but the situation could have easily been worse. Maybe you could make regular trips to a nearby city and start checking out who all is available over there. Or maybe give internet personal ads a try...you never know. I'm just trying to come up with options to get your mind focused on other stuff. Link to comment
gvdobson Posted April 1, 2005 Author Share Posted April 1, 2005 Well it's Friday now, and still no phone call. Should I wait until it's been a week? I don't really like that idea, but I don't want to seem pushy. HEEEELLLLPPPP! Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 Dude - if you have something you want to say to her or ask her, then call her!!! Honestly, the "phone game" turns me off. Some guys like to wait 6 days before they call, but I just say, "oh geezzz... this is lame. this guy watched swingers." Anyways, it's a total turnoff. I know she said she would call, but listen, if you got something to say to her, then say it! Link to comment
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