AvaD21 Posted January 17, 2017 Share Posted January 17, 2017 It's now been over a month since I last spoke to my ex, maybe too soon in writing this post but for how I feel I don't think it is. For those who have read my posts, my ex and I broke up in Dec 2015 and carried on some on off weird 'relationship' in the year that followed. I now look back on 2016 thinking there's 1000 things I'd do differently but hey ho new year no dwelling. I last spoke to him after he came back, confused wanting to be with me but he was in a casual relationship with someone else and thought I was too much of a risk to unsettle the new relationship. I told the girl everything that had happened, had a short, tense conversation after with my ex where we both said we wouldn't speak again and here I am. The first couple weeks he was on my mind every day. Especially Christmas and new year. I have no idea if he's in a relationship with the other girl by now. I feel very happy in my life. He pops in my head but it's more memories that remind me of him than me feeling any form of emotion to him. I don't miss him anymore. And that is where I want to be. I'm focusing on my own progression at the moment and making plans for the year with friends and in my head I've never felt stronger. For anyone having a hard time, you will get here. You'll beat yourself up and feel bad and upset and broken and like that person is the only one for you but honestly, that changes. People will tell you it does and you may not believe them. 'Nah it's different for me'. It isn't. Be strong, look forward and realise that maybe they weren't the amazing person you feel they are post breakup. Link to comment
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