RookieoftheYea Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 My story... On the last day of our vacation, she was distant and I brought it to her attention. She wound up breaking up with me, saying we weren't meshing. I was devastated. I didn't even ask questions, I didn't even try to talk about it. I just sat there and cried. We didn't talk the whole rest of the vacation day, the ride to the airport, at the airport and the entire flight home. It was horrible. I went NC immediately as soon as we landed home and went our separate ways. I broke NC after 14 days. I think I broke it because the mistake I think I made was not talking about it when I had the chance. I had so many unanswered questions and just couldn't understand how it happened. I was completely blindsided by her decision. It was killing me. I called. We spoke for over an hour. After general excuses, she finally said when I expressed to her that I felt she was being distant, it made her realize she couldn't keep hurting me. I was amazing and she was in it because I was the type of person everyone looks for (nice guy syndrome) but she loved me for who I was, but not romantically and didn't want to continue to force it. There was just no spark. During the awkward silence after the news, I simply hung up on her. Ouch. I got all the reasons why people say not to break NC, BUT for some reason I feel better. I'm not hanging on to false hope anymore. I know I have to start NC over again and this time, there's nothing else left to say to be tempted to contact her again. Anything after this, would just be pathetic. I'm gonna be okay and I can finally move on. I hope someone else can learn or relate to my story. NC is necessary, but sometimes we need to learn the hard way in how to apply it. Link to comment
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