albie

90 days done. No contact expect a Happy new year from her.

It's same situation for me as I live 8000 miles away from my family. I am on day 85 and I became stronger with time. I don't even count the days anymore and only did to write a posy yesterday. Try and do other things and make yourself occupied. You have to give him the space to miss you. It will feel like a win-win situation for you in the end. With time, if he misses you you he will get in touch. If not then you then it was not meant to be but you have already gone through the process of healing yourself. Please remember that you should be a priority in your life and no one else and consider this to be their loss and not yours'.

Day 84 I was dumped but I feel better now and I have been going strong from the last month or so. I am constantly improving myself and I know the mistakes I made to turn her off. I have been going on dates as well and that makes me more confident. But she sent me a message out of the blue on New Years Day ["I know you want no contact but I hope you have a good new year"] which made me feel like the NC is broken. I started thinking about her for a few hours and it felt like a setback. But I was strong enough and I replied back "Hey, great to hear from you. I hope you and your family have a happy 2017" and that was it. I did not beg her to come back and I will never do in the future. I still miss her when I am alone and it feels like I was nobody to her. But I feel better again today and I will move on.