Am I missing something?

[jacqm]

Since my split, I have been on a couple of dates. One of them gave me the same sort of grief - twice no less. The first time she said she was in the country with no reception. The second time, no excuse but I decided not for me. Although in my case I hadn't dated her several weeks, like Citric says, a text message hardly takes a few seconds. Separately, there is a woman who really likes me. I don't have the same feelings - in fact, she hardly crosses my mind. When I get a message from her, out of nicety I might respond quickly but there are times when I feel I don't want to be bothered. So could be they are just not that into you. The you is generic, not Citric.