question for the women

[ocean9]

how long does it take you to decide if someone is the one for you?

[Riles84]

I dunno if you can ever know . .my ex used to tell me i was the one ALL the time . .then she broke up with me. been a month and a half now and we were together a year and a half

[Double J]

I think once a girl really falls in love with a guy, that's when she starts to think "Hey, this guy might finally be the one.."

[skyteph]

I read somewhere (so correct me if I'm wrong) that after spending two years with a person, you know for a definate wether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with them.

[Mysterious Gurl]

spending two years with a person, you know for a definate wether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with them.

 

I have never heard of that before. I guss it's true though because I reckon you'd begin to have doubts if you were uncertain? I'm not sure if you will ever know if your gf/bf is the 'one'

 

Miya

[greenowl88]

I think it's more of a feeling you get, and not a matter of time.

[Mysterious Gurl]

never thought of it like that

Miya

[Mjane]

It happens in stages. According to MV -- most women decide if they want to have a relationship with a man after a few dates. Guys take longer to make the decision. But that's only dating to relationship. I say knowing if someone is the one depends on how much time you spend together and how well you get to know each other. You could know in 6 months or a year. Most people know in the 18 months to 2 year mark whether they want to get married.