ex's!

[TOA]

Hey all,

 

Well my ex of nearly 2 years ago arrived back home from a holiday oversea's...

 

Bang, she is contacting me once a week with silly little questions.. questions almost as if she is going out of her way to contact me..

 

I still cannot get over her - what do I do?!

 

What do I say?!

 

I haven't seen her in almost 18 months...

 

Help!

[jabean]

Well, if you are okay with having contact, then when she calls keep things light and friendly, and do not talk about the relationship. And end the conversation quickly. Do not initiate getting together. Let her do that.

 

However, you said you are not over her. That might make it a little tougher. But do not spill any beans at this point. Let her make the moves, and don't be so easy to get a hold of. Keep living your life.