oral sex

[donkey]

Ok, It has been a while since I have had/given oral sex. And I have only ever done it to one guy and I just have a few questions about technique.

 

When a guys penis is errect it is usually up against his stomach area, is this where you leave is penis or can you move it so it is easier to give him oral sex?

 

Normally I have just left it where it is and done it that way but I was wondering if you can move it, like down so instead of pointing up it is pointing dow. I know this is a stupid question but I just want to know so I can make it great for my new boyfriend.

 

Any other info and tips for making it good would be very appriciated thank you!

[DragonGirl724]

i am copying & pasting what i wrote in a previous post topic on sex positions.

-DG724

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hmmmm...how to word this .......im gonna try my hardest to NOT make this seem pornographic! this is meant to explain techniques...nothing more than that. lol

 

For the Ladies: here are some tips on giving good......head.

 

* to stir things up a little try removing his pants/belt/underwear with your teeth. its amazing that when you concentrate you can unbutton & unzip jeans w/o using any hands. it kinda sets the 'oral mood'. it slightly indicates some of the talented techniques to come his way in the near future... kinda gets the mind wondering...& him thinking: "THIS IS GONNA BE GOOOOOOOOD!"

 

* start off slow, dont dive in like a maniac this is your man's prized possesion we're talkin about the last thing hell ever want is for anything to cause it any kind of harm or damage, let alone 'scare it away'. lol

 

-licking the shaft & testicles (while looking up at him) & slowly but firmly gripping & sliding your hand along the shaft in an upright position is a good way to start off. glance back to 'his package' every now & then close your eyes for a short while & REALLY CONCENTRATE! if you pay close attention you can feel slight twitches & movements actually inside the penis & that can help guide you to find out if this dude is liking what youre doing or not. remember: a man knows when a chick is realllly diggin the fact that shes gettin him off. dont do it half a**ed sex should be about fully pleasing the other person. so i suggest do it right if youd like the same kind of treatment in return.

 

* once he is fully erect & raring to go position your upper body to accomidate the position he is in so the penis is upright. & you can begin to 'dive in'. just for an FYI: if you use condoms during oral sex, it usually 'lessens' the pleasure for a man, but if youd rather go the 'better safe than sorry route' try flavored condoms & if you think you can do it without tearing the latex, attempt to put on the condom by using only your mouth. but you have to wait til hes fully erect & be careful to fold your lips over your teeth so there isnt a risk of ripping the condom.

 

-try going as far down the shaft as you can. while using your stronger hand to cover whatever is left of the shaft that you cant stimulate orally & keep whatever rhythm youre got goin on with your mouth simoutaneous with the rhythm you have with your hand to basically 'cover as much ground as you can' without losing the beat. if you can coordinate it enough to do those 2 things at once while using your other hand to massage his testicles thats always a plus. heres a hint: there is a spot on a man right behind his testicles & before his butt some refer to as a 'taint' (b/c it-aint the balls & it-aint the *** lol) well theres a spot around there that if treated properly can reallllly stimulate an orgasm.

 

-to switch it up you can sometimes get into that 'happy zone' w/ your toungue or finger (its tough if you have nails though so try using your knuckle(s) )

 

* keep eye contact if possible, but its understandable if youd rather focus on whats in front of you to not lose concentration. but a 'look' every now & then can really draw him even further into the experience.

 

-this is the time where you have to 'know your man' pick up slight hints he may throw at you. if hes slightly pushing on your head he will like for you to go deeper. is he hlds your shoulders or holds your head he likes everything about the moment & doesnt want you to move. if it seems as if he is 'thrusting' into your mouth he may want you to go deeper & faster. sometimes a guy may gently touch or hold your chin or side of your face. he may just be a mental thing like: 'that his prize is in there right now' kinda thing...or maybe he wants you to do more 'internal work'.

 

-what i mean by that is toungue action. try going around his shaft in circles or up & down without losing whatever rhythm you have at the moment. clockwise then going counterclockwise is usually a good thing for most men & pay attention to the vein on the side of the shaft. ive realized that it seems to be quite important. be careful: not to drag your teeth while providing oral sex. *OUCH & DOUBLE OUCH!* (hey some are into that kinda thing but for those who arent be careful not to drag those pearly whites..) try folding your lips around your teeth so that doesnt happen. but dont hurt yourself in the process.

 

* once you seem to have control of the situation & know what he likes & doesnt like. try to take away your hand & utilize his entire shaft orally. but switch it up to suit both yours & his needs. keep your confidence & focus on him. this is HIS time & youre doing all you can to make it worth his while. what a good girlfriend you are.

 

* a generalized tip is to increase speed right before him climaxing. you can feel his shaft begin to swell up & you can feel the tension throughout his entire body if done right. he may grab ahold of your head or something stabelized right before the "big O". so keep this in mind when he starts to do things like this NOT to lose concentration! you did all this work to get him here just keep it up, a slight change in focus or rhythm can REALLY end this for him & not in a good way . he seems to love whatever youre doing if it brought him to this point of almost finishing, so DONT CHANGE ANYTHING! keep it up & focus harder & harder on it & pay attention to whats going on 'inside your man' (i find that closing your eyes during this time lowers my chances of getting distracted & allows me to focus more so he can finally have his moment).

 

* AHHHHHHHHHH YESSSSSSSSS!!!! old faithful did not let him down this time!!! you provided excellent oral sex & he just finished climaxing! *congratulations* lol once the muscle spasms, screaming, & releasing is over THAT DOESNT MEAN THE JOB IS OVER. hehehe

 

* slowly give him a cool down, remove your hands from his shaft & slowlllllllyyyyyyyyyy gentlllllllllllllly 'orally massage' his 'manhood'. this is when good eye contact is key. sex is just like a work out (but better), you do foreplay as a warm up, you do what needs to be done, then a cool down is needed. plus it makes clean up a whole lot easier.

 

i hope i didnt miss anything. i may post another reply for the FELLAS! maybe itll answer some of those questions you have about us females.

 

hope this helped anyone who was confused about providing oral to your man.

 

-DG724

[DragonGirl724]

heres the rest of the link:

 

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-DG724

[11flower]

DG,

 

You've explained this all very well. LOL

 

Just want to add that that spot you are talking about is called the

 

.perineum-- the space between the anus and scrotum or vaginal canal.

 

'Scuse me I'm not trying to be condescending here.

 

11flower

[SKIDD]

My friend wanted to add:

 

I just happened to be reading along with my friend, and noticed not a single guy had replied to this request. just so you all know, this isn't a girl, its a real, fully orally sexually experienced 18 year old male.

 

Here are some tips:

 

For you, realize that a blow job is as good if not better than having sex: if it is good. treat it like a bannana. you dont want to apply too much pressure, and NO teeth. unless thats what he likes. just the feeling of the heat and the moistness of the mouth moving back and fourth drives me NUTS. if you dont like to have it all the way in your mouth, use your hand as and extender. personally i dont know the difference when she does that if my eyes are closed. take a break once in a while to mix it up. you might want to lick from the tip down from time to time, or maybe just focus on the tip. when you are doing it, dont just use your mouth the whole time, you might want to jack him off a little bit while your giving him head. start out slow and if he likes it faster, then you might want to do it like that as you go. but ALWAYS start slow. just caress it, make it as wet as possible without drooling all over it. if you like recieving oral sex, then try 69. the better you do, the better he does, and this keeps on until one humongous orgasm. thats about it.

[Abacab]

Donkey wrote was wondering if you can move it, like down so instead of pointing up it is pointing dow.

 

Wow, if you force down a fully erect penis, you can cause pain for your partner, and probably damage the thing!

[arwen]

Yes, but down-wards seems to give more pleasure. Of course I am no guy LOL.

 

*A little biting with your lips around your teeth, eh...

 

*using the other hand to move the skin while busy with the mouth, or

*stroking/massaging the pyreneum (the part between balls and anus)

 

 

Ilse.