Is this a mistake??

[jimmyjoe]

I have a problem, a real problem. I like my friend, in a more than a friend way. So what you say. Well I believe she likes me more also. Again so what. Well I am going overseas for 12-13 months, in like 34 days. I work with this friend but that will end as of Friday. So I decided that I need to come clean and tell her how I feel. I know doing this at work would be wrong, so messaged her asking to meet up on Sunday or Monday (her days off). She wanted to know why so I tell her that I would like to talk about something before I leave. Now I have got her freaked out that it serious, and I don't want this, I don't mind what her feelings are, if we can't be any more than friends that's fine I can deal with that. What I can't deal with is not knowing how she feels before I leave.

 

I just want to know if I have made a mistake in asking her to meet up, and if it is such a good idea to tell her how I feel.

[jimmyjoe]

So is that a yes it is a bad idea, or no i should just go for it. I would say "what have i got to lose" But the thing is i do have a friend to loose.

[Alabama]

No, you didn't make a mistake. You just want to know how she feels, and as long as you don't push her, into feeling for you, if she doesn't, then go for it. Good luck!

[boredguy]

well honestly u need to evaluate in your own mind if its worth taking the risk of losing your friend. u may not lose her, but u have to answer the question

. is it worth risking ur friendship over?