Addicted TO my Best friend :(

[davedreamer88]

 

 

Hey Guys, I feel like im freakin dying here.its a real dillemma

 

 

I have known this girl for many years... started being friends in high school then went to college in the same course. Then worked at the same place. I mean... i absolutely love this girl. We are best friends!.. and when we hang out we can have so much fun....

 

But after more then 10 years being in eachothers , lives sexual Chemistry started to happen and we started making out here and there... some touching.

I am so so so so so (x1million) attracted to her. if i could say super explicit thing about how much a crave this girl it would be ridiculous.

Last time we hung ouy was about 2 weeks ago and we made out heaps and she gave me sexy -(topless covering ) photos of her.

 

i dont call her or text her becuase i feel nedy and desperate for her attention and i know she will be able to sense that. I have had these really bad feelings for so long - probably 2 years. Feelings of just "cant live without her" , and she is literally on my mind 80% of the day. Im seriously over it .. and its so much more pain then pleasure now. its not her fault because i cant make her want me but its really killing me. The dilemma is how do i let go of a best friend?

[Willywagtail]

I don't understand. If you really like her, why don't you ask her to be your GF?

 

Why do you need to let go of her? Or are you saying that the lust is superseding the friendship?

 

The two can coexist, you know.

[TMifune]

Sooo, she makes out with you and sends you topless photos.......and this is your evidence that she doesn't like you?

[crowleysgirl]

Umm.... How old are you? Just ask her to be your GF. She made out with you and sent you nude photos for crying out loud!