unexpectedvictim57 Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 i know there have been alot of forums like this one but i really want to know how girls masterbate...... like i've trried i guess but i can't seem to get much pleasure if any at all from it so i think i ma doing somemthing wrong...... and it really hurts me to try to finger myself and i can't put a tampon in because it hurtss too much (and yes i know which is the right hole)..... so any advice...... and don't comment on any age please!!! Link to comment
heartbroken23 Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 you don't necessarily have to finger yourself to feel good. Just rub on the clitt a for a little bit until you start to get wet, then try inserting your finger....I am no expert but I know most girls like their clit rubbed...hope that helped some? Link to comment
sisterlynch Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 Your method is wrong, dont worry about going on the inside just with your fingers, it will not feel right, so save that for when you are with someone else. You have something called a clitoris that is on the front folds of your vagina that is the pleasure area for yourself, like the penis is for the guys, but god hid ours and made theirs more easy to find, so they get a mighty big headstart on their masterbation. Look at your hands, you have a pointer finger and a middle finger. Put those two fingers together and look at them. They form a little paddle dont they? Now place that little paddle between your leggs, and explore a little, see what you find. Relax, get almost hypnotized by what you are doing and most of all feel good about your body while you do this, don't say, I hate my hair while you are doing this, think about warm water running over your body, people watching you and you most of all loving yourself. Link to comment
QTpie87 Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 well hhhmmmm. i was gonna suggest something, but looks like sisterlynch gotcha coverd there. Link to comment
unexpectedvictim57 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Share Posted January 24, 2005 yes thanx everyone, but just a question...... is the clit the flabby looking skin that folds up inside? or am i being stupid? Link to comment
sisterlynch Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 The clit doesn't look flabby, that is probably the mons, where your hair is growing. The clit is the most sensative place, and it is about where your middle finger will reach when you are lying on your back. I have heard it called the bean, if that helps. It will get engorged and swell up and that will make your vagina lubricate too. Touch it gently and stroke it side to side, it will feel weird and like pain at first, but just keep doing it anyway and you will grow to like it. Sonic, isnt it that way for the guys, too, you learn to like it after a while? Link to comment
unexpectedvictim57 Posted January 24, 2005 Author Share Posted January 24, 2005 are you talking to me or sonic...... im confused....... and is the clit the flabby bit of skin? Link to comment
sisterlynch Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 It is hard to explain with words. Link to comment
unexpectedvictim57 Posted January 25, 2005 Author Share Posted January 25, 2005 i can't find my clit!!!! ahhhhhhh where is it? what does it look like?? help....... im such a loser..... Link to comment
unexpectedvictim57 Posted January 25, 2005 Author Share Posted January 25, 2005 thanx i think i found it but im not sure pm with a pic or somehting so ic an find it ....... for real.......... im so confused and sooo embarrassed...... Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted January 26, 2005 Share Posted January 26, 2005 Maybe a diagram would help. link removed Try a search on Google. Often, feminine products (tampons and the like) companies have great websites that offer diagrams. Link to comment
Ifeelinvisable Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Just try rubbing the outer skin of your clit(it kind of sticks out,its not flabby)to get stimulated,just very lightly run your first two fingers(pointer and middle)against the clit it will tickle and eventually start to feel really good,so do a little,faster,with a little bit more presure,and just go from there...it feels good.... Link to comment
Ifeelinvisable Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 it works good if you,have chones on(underwear).....forgot to mention that.... Link to comment
surfNski Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 Massage shower head that detaches from the wall and you can move around. You can control the pressure, its clean, and it feels awesome.... Ok, I am a guy so I am leaving Link to comment
Lala4553 Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Okay so your clitt is that little small thing in between your flapps at the very top of your vagina. It is about the size of your pinky nail. Now just rub that and progressively get faster. I know this might sound stupid or kind of weird but I use a pillow and stick my fingers under it lay on the pillow and rub my * * * * * up and down where my hands are placed at under the pillow. I discovered this method when I was 11 years old and been using it since. At first I had no clue what it was all I knew is that it felt soo good! It is kind of like rubbing your * * * * * on a hard * * * * as I think of it. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 HA HA HA!! This was posted 4 years ago..... I think the OP has got the idea by now. Link to comment
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