rainydays1 Posted March 29, 2015 Share Posted March 29, 2015 so I just found out my ex is now engaged! only 7 months after our split. with the guy 6 months now this....engagement. wow. Link to comment
Brokenhart84 Posted March 29, 2015 Share Posted March 29, 2015 Honestly she was probably seeing the guy while you were together. It is a long road but you will get through this. Link to comment
kbbcoop77 Posted March 29, 2015 Share Posted March 29, 2015 Look at it from a positive viewpoint, you don't have to wallow and dwell on a possible reconciliation ...it's over now, now you can really just focus on you and your own well being. My ex wife hooked up very soon after she left me and I know that it must've been an ongoing affair so I was able to redirect my feelings of sadness and despair to acceptance and resolution. She's gone..ancient history...old news etc. Over time it gets better. Just make new memories in your new life and soon enough there comes a new normal...it's been a year for me and while there is still residual pain it's nothing like the early days of agony. The way I see it she's someone else's problem now, I got her off the pedestal and know she is not now who she was. We had great times but that's over and life moves forward..take care Link to comment
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