shiminimo Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Why do girls always have to hurt me? Why do I always get cheated on? I'm a nice guy. Nice guys alway finish last. Link to comment
detox5 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 because no matter what you do, you always hand girls ALLL the power on the plate, and thats why they walk over you and you finsh last. Im a nice guy also, and i had the same thing happen to me for a long time. Link to comment
detox5 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 dude go out this weekend, and believe that you are the most irresistible thing in the world lol. Dont look at any girls, dont give them the satisfation of your "attention". and its not that girls dont want you or not interested in you, its nothing like that, its you that dont want them, you are in a pick and choose situation and have all the power in the world does that make sense or should i edit and delete it hehe Link to comment
swift44 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 probaly because alot of girls are foolish and when they find someone who shos affection and care fore them they take it for granmted and fel as if "they are in power" that happened to me and it hurt but u gon find the new one trust me not all girls are this foolish, just alot of them Link to comment
shiminimo Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 yeah dudes theirs 340 million girls in this world you would think one would be decent. Link to comment
SkyFire Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Dude, trust me, its not the girls, its you. You give girls 100 % of your time, and dedicate your life to them. That is why you get cheated on/abused. You have lots to learn.. read this link removed AND this link removed Link to comment
SkyFire Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 probaly because alot of girls are foolish and when they find someone who shos affection and care fore them they take it for granmted and fel as if "they are in power" that happened to me and it hurt but u gon find the new one trust me not all girls are this foolish, just alot of them Wrong. You are the guy, you have the power. Its silly to blame your girl problems on girls, if the problem is in you. Link to comment
swift44 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 okk suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure lol siek na, there can be various reasons, but jus be careful cuz people are funni and do weird dumb things Link to comment
Cappi Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 One thing I've learned from my present boyfriend, who got taken advantage of in the past... Be the "nice guy" but to a point - don't let people, girls, walk over you. Have high standards for how you want to be treated. Know your worth and expect nothing less. There are people that, given the chance, will use you if you're "too" nice. Link to comment
FiveHorizons Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 "You are the guy, you have the power." That made me laugh. Just some advice: stick to girls. Most real women will have a problem with that mindset. Link to comment
detox5 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Dont be thinkin you should change, I love being nice and a nice guy, but I love myself and have alot of respect to myself that I can lauggh at idiot girls that arent worth the time. Respect yourself to the best you can, things willl look up, it did for me. Link to comment
aries Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 OK GUYS.......let me tell you as a reformed shy guy...reformed NICE GUY. Im still very nice......but not sucker. All you need to do is work on your confidence. I read this website before i changed...lots of great articles on self confidence for guys ....also sign up for their DAILY email. YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.....wiht that is have confidence and know who you are. anyway...just look around the site..........it may change the way you see the whole "game" link removed best of luck Link to comment
emma34 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 well - as THAT girl who would likely cheat on the nice guy (believe me I'm not proud of this...) These girls have good intentions most likely, but end up hurting you because they think you won't care or give them any trouble about it - and they can just get out easy without causing any big thing about it. This is my educated guess anyway. These girls also have likely been hurt by a guy/guys and end up treating guys like objects because that's how they've been treated in the past. It's actually pretty easy to spot these girls - the girls that ALWAYS have a guy with them. If you find your not finding the nice girls often enough, stick to casual relationships.. THOSE (the bad ones) kind of girls do not want those kind of relationships usually - they want to move fast. Be friends with the girl first - than you won't have to worry about being used, cause all your doing is being friends, and eventually youl'l figure out what shes like. Oh and also: playing a little hard to get never hurts. not calling right away - letting her ask the questions, that kind of thing..Believe me, I've been where you've been, and I ended up being a bitter harda*s lol. Being too nice never gets ya anywhere... Link to comment
detox5 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 lol you dont need help in telling yourself how to love yourself, thats like saying ok i have a car, i need to be told where the steering wheel is, maybe some ppl need a push and an outlook on life and stuff maybe. i did all this on my own, so actually i cant really comment. Link to comment
shiminimo Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 LOL, so dude you guys are tellin me to be a A"HOLE. nah... that isn't right Link to comment
Caldus Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 LOL, so dude you guys are tellin me to be a A"HOLE. nah... that isn't right Not at all. Be a nice guy but don't be a pushover. That can be done. Be assertive. Link to comment
SkyFire Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 OK GUYS.......let me tell you as a reformed shy guy...reformed NICE GUY. Im still very nice......but not sucker. All you need to do is work on your confidence. I read this website before i changed...lots of great articles on self confidence for guys ....also sign up for their DAILY email. YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.....wiht that is have confidence and know who you are. anyway...just look around the site..........it may change the way you see the whole "game" link removed best of luck Just finished reading some of it.. Dude, I dont do half of those things and still get girls. However, I think that site's purpose is to give people confidence which allows them to learn for themselves. Link to comment
Sexychiick16 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Lol i always get hurt by guys .... Go figure..lol About girls and treating you wrong...I swear the guy has the upper hand in this! Like try not to try so hard and Let them come to you..That is the whole secret...be more aggresive and keep your dignity and have confedence! Easier said then done but ..yeah thats really all u need to know dude. ~Sexy Link to comment
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