I called and left message, no response yet. What to do?

[whattheheck]

I met a girl at a sports bar Saturday night. I was with my friends, and she was with hers. I know one of her friends that she was with so I started talking to them.

 

Anyway, the other women she was with told me that "Jen" thought I was cute, etc... So I started talking to "Jen" and we really seemed to hit it off. We went back to one of her friends house and just talked until about 4:00 am. We got along really well, and I was really happy too get her number.

 

So I called Tuesday night, but she was not home, so I left a message. I left her my number and told her that I hope we can get together and do something sometime.

 

Well, she did not call me back. Should I just count this as a "strike out" or should I give her more time to call me, or should I call her again? I do not really want to call her again, because I do not want to be a nuisance to her.

 

Usually, I wouldn't even think twice about this, but I really like this woman, but do not know what to do. Any opinions would be greatly appreciated!!!

 

thanks

[Lonelyinasmalltown]

Give her one more call back, if she isn't there leave another message, a light one. After that, don't call again. If she doesn't call you back, her loss.

[sidhat]

I think its better not to leave a message bcoz you already did.. just leave a missed call on her caller id or cell phone.. If she dont call you back then her loss..

 

Just move on there is another waiting for you buddy...

[Hope75]

It was only Tues night that you called, and it's now Thursday morning..... she may be working or busy, I say give her the benefit of the doubt.

 

If she doesn't call by Sunday, maybe give her one more ring Sun. night and leave another casual message, like the first one, and then if nothing let it go.

[Wimpy]

Are you sure she got the message? Answer machines malfunction. From my experience I'd say keep trying until you get to talk to her in person - then decide if she's interested or not.

 

Leaving a message on a machine is impersonal and too likely to go wrong. If you speak to her and get nowhere then at least you know.

 

Just my thoughts anyhow.

[Lonelyinasmalltown]

Yeah, best listen to Hope, after all she is a woman. lol Seriously, on thinking about what I said and reading what Hope wrote, it's probably best to follow her advice.

[unicycle]

You might want to try asking her friend that you know. She might have gone out of town or maybe she answer machine problems or she has a big project to do at work so she comes homes and crashes on the couch and gets up and leaves again in the morning.