TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 My girlfriend went away to vacation for Christmas, and i think for the rest of the winter vacation. I feel sick, and I dont think i will have a good christmas without her. Anything i can do to stop thinking about her constantly? Link to comment
Caldus Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Well a lot of people spend time with their family. Just enjoy the day with your family. You will see your girlfriend again soon enough I'm sure. Link to comment
TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Author Share Posted December 25, 2004 It is hard because i miss her... i feel lonely Link to comment
Caldus Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 She probably misses you too. Just give her a quick call on Christmas day and say Merry Christmas, etc. Link to comment
TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Author Share Posted December 25, 2004 I can't. Her father doesn't want her talking to me. She can only call me and when she does, it is because she is sneaking. Man, my christmas blows Link to comment
TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Author Share Posted December 25, 2004 These smileys with the Santa Clause hat is making things worst. Link to comment
Caldus Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Actually I think they are neat but that's just me. Well that sucks. Find something to do around the house (or maybe go out to the movies). Again, you will get to see her again soon. So hang in there. Link to comment
ksk0_0 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Me too.. My g/f's gone with her dad (they are divorced) and brother and friend to go up north skiing, she asked me if I could come with her but I couldn't. I think shes coming back on the 30th... Any suggestions on what to do till then? I'll miss her lots I told her to have fun and have a merry christmas and to call me when she gets back. Link to comment
ocean9 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Hey guys, While they are away, you could write love letters or poems or songs or whatever to them and then give them the letters when they get back. That's really romantic, and they will know just how much you were thinking of them. For those of you who have artistic talents, maybe you could draw or paint something for them. Take all of the sadness, and channel it into being creative. You'll feel better, and they will feel really loved when they return. Just some ideas! Link to comment
TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Author Share Posted December 25, 2004 i always do that though... i wrote her a letter 2 days ago, and i wrote her a poem as one of her christmas gifts..... any other suggestions??? i really feel lonely and i miss her so much. I wanna spend Christmas with her... Link to comment
amanda22 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 wonderful idea ocean!!! they will be happily surprised when they come back!!! Link to comment
giggle3474 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Me! Me! Me! I know what you're going through. My man is gone for 9 more days and to top it off, we had a big fight before he left. I hope he will call me but I dunno.... I'm passing time by sleeping a lot and pouting but I just need to do things to keep my mind off of him. I like the writing love letters idea, however it won't work for me. I hope she is able to call you soon. Meanwhile, hang out with your friends or watch a movie or go for a long walk...just keep yourself busy. I'm sorry your christmas sucks, too Link to comment
ocean9 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Going for long walks will help with the sadness. Any form of exercise will help actually. Try to be around really positive upbeat people. Don't get drunk, that will cause you to feel worse. Umm....hmm...what do you like to do? Do you have any interests you've been neglecting? Link to comment
nosoul Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 hey my boyfriend are apart at christmas cuz he and me have to spend time wit relatives that we haven't seen in a while so ya but i wish i could see he called today tho!!and anyway i m not too sad as long as he calls so if u no any of her numbers call her or sumthing but just try to have fun without her for a few days Link to comment
amanda22 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 spend time with friends is good cause they are so often neglected when there is a relationship around. and cleaning...haha....my room is spotless. uh spend time with parents...um volunteer, its that time for giving...hmmm...i dunno Link to comment
TheUnknown123 Posted December 25, 2004 Author Share Posted December 25, 2004 me and my girlfriend had a small argument before she left to.....we are under the same boat! Link to comment
Goodgirl Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 Believe me, time apart is good, even if it is over Christmas break. It makes you appreciate the other person more, and lets you reminise on all your good times. I know it seems hard, but a lot of people have it a lot worse. Link to comment
ocean9 Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 It makes you appreciate the other person more, and lets you reminise on all your good times. I sure hope so! Link to comment
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