A womans perspective puh-lease

[thunda]

What does a girl expect from a guy in whom she may be interested? What I mean is what sort of things would she hope he would do to try and woo her and what sort of behaviour would she like to see from him regarding her?

[Queen_Midas]

Ok I expect the guy to at least reply PROMPTLY to all her messages (something really important now cos the current crush has done just the opposite and it hurts like mad!).. I also expect the person to be interested in what I have to say, to ask my questions and finally just to ask me out.. I don't like having to do the asking out.. I don't ask much?!

 

QM.

 

[Day_Walker]

Its important to show her that you are interested in her. Now every female has different ideas of what being interested means.

[Kaia]

It'd be nice if the guy asks how she is doing (casually, not freakily) when he sees her, show interest in the stuff that she likes even though it doesn't really interest him, listen to her when she talks. When in a group, pay more attention to her than anyone else. And of course like Queen_Midas said, he should eventually ask her out

[asdf]

you need to be less concerned with what a woman expects from you. it doesn't matter. be yourself. and the i'm-all-about-pleasing-you thing can come off as a bit submissive and weak from a guy

[joe45]

ok what happens if ur a guy and u act all interested and all but she doesn't show any interests. i guess move on to the next one right

 

when are u considered too desperate and when it is it called he just acting interested.