Jackie Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Ill try to make a long story short... I dated a guy for almost 3 years, and he broke up with me becasue he said that I deserve someone who can treat me better and he treated me fine and I even told him that! A year later I meet a guy Jon, we have a lot in common, I feel very comfortable around him and he asked me to dinner and a movie. It was a good time. He wanted a 'break' because I moved and we lived too far apart. Now I live in the same city as him and he asked me out again. Had a good time. BUT a week later he said "you're really nice but I don't know what I'm looking for". A couple months later he's asking me if I wanna hang out sometime, go to his house and watch a movie. If I don't know what a guy wants and I really like him, I can get very shy I really like this guy that keeps asking me to "hang out" but I don't know what he wants. His friends told my friend that Jon hasn't had a gf before. And Jon told me awhile ago that the longest he's had one is 2 months. And he's 23! I'm a really easy going girl, not whiny or high maintenance, nice, and just like to have fun. And I don't talk about getting serious or anything. I don't want to just jump out and ask him to date me because I have a feeling that may ruin my chances or scare him off. SO.. if anyone knows what I should do or say PLEASE PLEASE help me!! Or if you know why this guy is giving me mixed signals I'd love it if you could help me out! Thanks A Bunch Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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