I need some thoughts on this

[skyhunter82]

I'm serving in the Army and I'm currently stationed in Korea. My sweetheart is waiting for me back in Illinois. I want to propose to her but I don't think I'll be able to go home any time soon. Here's what I was thinking. My parents are going to visit her soon and I was going to send the ring with them. While they are at her house I will call her and start talking to her for a little while. During this time, my parents will give the ring to her 4yr old son and have him go present it to her about the time I ask her to marry me. I need to know if this sounds like a good idea or not.

[Janice53]

You don't know when you're coming back? Is your relationship stable enough where you could just wait to do it in person? If it's going to be a REALLY long time (years) before you see her, then it sounds like a great idea. Otherwise, I think she'd like it better if you did it directly!

[cindydtk]

he is caring, loving, gentle, sweet, and great when i'm around him, but when I'm not, i hardly receive a call from him. are guys that way or he isn't in love?