Hows this for a christmas gift?

[Warhawk]

Im really good friends with this girl. In fact, we are best friends. She knows that i like her, but she has a boyfriend. She has been really stressed out lately, so how does a massage sound as a gift? This wouldnt be going overboard or cross any boundaries would it? Please LMK what you guys think! THANKS

[TheIrish]

technically it would just make sure she doesnt tell her bf. (touching her basically is out of bounds just make sure she doesn't tell or your screwed)

[Warhawk]

haha maybe i should make things a little clearer, a bought massage from an actual masseuse. not from me

[fallslikerain]

you massaging her, or you giving her a gift certificit to a massage place?

[Warhawk]

a gift certificate to a place

[fallslikerain]

well that answers that

 

 

 

sounds alright to me, i was just thinking of making a gift giving question post myself

[lookingformyredangel]

I think it's a great idea. It shows her that you care and it will help relieve her stress

[beanpaper]

Nothing wrong with the gift itself. But he probably would get mad anyway no matter what you gave her since you like her, are best friends with her, and buy her presents. Hopefully her boyfriends present will be better than yours or surely he'll find something to hate about it.

[fallslikerain]

maybe someone could give me gift ideas as well. I've been dating a girl for about a month, and would like to get her something for the holidays, but I don't want to scare her off and buy her something too fancy and what not, but I would also like it to be meaningfull. I also don't have a load of money.

[lynn38]

It is a little unusual for you to give her such a personal gift like that since she has a boyfriend, but you could always say in the card, Know this time of year can be stressful, so I wanted to de stress you..