cleverme123 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Ok, I have posted some what about this before but now there is a whole new angle I have missed. I have been with this guy for a year now, got married 2 weeks ago, have a baby on the way... Well at first and when he is here, things seem like this picture perfect world. We get along great, rarely fight, etc. the problem is he works 2 almost full time jobs. I rarely see him. To make matters worse, I recently found out his ex works at the same store he does, and I had had my suspicious thinking on her for a while. Then, I find out this other girl he works with who was suppose to be a mutual friend, not only slept with him before we got together, but now has been playing him against me. To make matters worse, I confronted both of these chicks while they were working. The ex I told to back off because she knows how it feels to be sitting at home while her man is out cheating. She only called here every other night for 3 weeks crying her eyes out to my man. he allows it. She is very rude to begin with, and I was not being at all nasty I just told her to back off. She told me there was nothing going on, and she barely spoke to him. So I set her up, I told her he had said to me that he was leaving me to go back to her. Well, she decides to leave her job and come over to see whats going on. Little did she know I set her up and followed her to my house. I pulled up right behind her and she tried to avoid me, she then circles the block and rides back through several more times before going to a pay phone and calling. When I answered she hung up. the other chick had told my husband all this crap and had compounded everything together and everything I said to her she told him. Which was a really low thing to do. So I totally washed my hands of both of them. So now the whole problem. My husband was FURIOUS, told me he was filing for divorce didn't want to be with me, didn't care about the baby I was carrying, threatened to take him away. It goes on and on. I begged and pleaded for forgiveness and he was mad, but he told me I need to just forget about them and quit trying to trudge stuff up making our relationship bad. I can't help but wonder why he was so angry when he knows the one is a complete liar, and two why the ex would come here after I told her to back off, if something wasn't going on. So hubby and I talked and he seemed some what ok. Now he is back to really caring for me again. Is this just a time bomb, or should I be turning the other cheek to theses ex's. Quote Link to comment
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