rebound Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 Hi, I'm a bit confused and need your advice. Two months ago I met a wonderful guy; he had finished his relationship one week before and we started to talk and date. Few days after, we became more intimate and I asked him what about his ex. He said it was over, so we started dating more serious. Two weeks later, he told me he found his ex and she told him she wasn't prepared to give up of "them"; I told him exactly the same, I was enjoying this relationship so much and wasn't either prepared to finish. He told me to let things flow; he and his ex had a past together, but the present "was me and him". Thursday he dropped the bomb: he said he was very confused about the ex and was having troubles in accepting she could be with someone else and asked me some time. It was when I started asking some questions he told me all the truth: that he and his ex were having an affair since the beginning of our relationship, he was sleeping almost every night in her house and he needed to end with this "double" life because he was hurting me, himself and the ex. I was devastated and had to run out and asked him the weekend to sort my mind. Sunday night we met again and he told me, Thursday he was prepared to finish with me – he even had told the ex that – but he hadn't the courage for that and during the weekend decided to be with me and leave the ex. I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with this guy, but I don't know what I mean to him. Am I a rebound? Since the beginning he betrayed me with his ex, but now he asks my forgiveness and says he wants to be with me. I think this is positive,, but then again is it possible on Thursday decide to get back to the ex and on Sunday decide to be with me instead? Has he found he loves me or he is just with me because of guilty? Help me. I really, really need your advice. Quote Link to comment
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