mandylee4christ Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 Ok, so here's the thing. About 6 months ago I got engaged to my boyfriend of over 2 years. The proposal was absolutely incredible- it was in front of a huge waterfall at sunset with no one around- gorgeous! Before we got engaged we both decided that it wasn't going to be for a while until we were actually married- we still had things to work on before we comitted to forever. Keeping that in mind, we set the date for November 26 2005 (a year and a half away from when we originally decided on a date.) Now I know that all grooms are N.I.D (Not into details) when it comes to wedding planning, but he would always huff and puff whenever it came to choosing a reception site, or deciding on a wedding party. I understand that he is having a hard time planning becuase he feels it's so far away (It's a year, but there's SO much to do!). But this past weekend we got into this huge fight- he's been snapping at me recently (wedding plans aren't ever present) he'll just snap at the silliest things. (He has a short temper). I broke down and told him that if he doesn't try to work on treating me better then I wasn't sure there was going to be a wedding. I am so terrified that this is how he will treat me ALL the time when we get married. Now, I know you can't change a man, I am not set out to change him. He was never like this before, but just recently he's been so on the edge lately. Now everytime I look at my wedding dress or think of planning I get scared that there might not be a wedding. What do you think is going through this guy's head? He told me he was scared about getting married in November because he knows he has a hard time treating me like a princess all the time (for the record- he treats me like royalty 90% of the time). I know he wants to be as perfect as possibly before he marries me. I think he's scared his temper may one day ruin the marriage and that's why he's having such a hard time with this. I dont know.... any advice? Quote Link to comment
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