M2411 Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 Alright so I just finished my sophomore year of college and in the last few weeks before school got out I met this girl through a group of mutual friends and after talking to her a lot during this event that lasted a few days I got a pretty good crush on her. So she added me on Facebook as well as others from this event and one day I decided to give it a shot and chat with her on there. Well she seemed very distant and not interested in talking to me saying she had some homework she needed to get done. So I left her alone and thought maybe id try again some other time. Well the next day i talked with one of our mutual friends who happens to be my best friend and found out this girl I like had said something to my best friend about me trying to talk to her. So I sort of assumed no interest from her and just left her be. Well last Thursday she randomly messaged me on Facebook asking me what I was up to and then getting into a long discussion with me about movies and some personal things about her and finally asking about me like how old I was and then making flirty jokes at me being older than her. That talk lasted about three hours during which she said she was watching a movie shed never seen but continued to talk and ask me things. Well after that we didn't talk for a few days until last night and earlier this morning when I woke up. I guess what I'm looking for here is thoughts on the situation as a whole and advice on how to move it forward and not get friend zoned. Anything would be appreciate thank you Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 How not to get friendzoned: Make your romantic interest clear. Don't keep talking to her on FB and not ask her out; she'll know you are interested but too chicken to make a move, and it will turn her off. That's how you get friendzoned. Link to comment
M2411 Posted May 21, 2013 Author Share Posted May 21, 2013 Yeah i understand that makese sense and Maybe I should trough this in too she lives in the town where I go to college which is two hours away from my home here while I'm on summer break i don't know if that matters but thought is throw it out there Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 So in the fall, you'll be closer? I still say make your move now. At least say something like, "I can't wait to take you out when I get back to ______ for the fall semester". Make your intentions clear. Link to comment
M2411 Posted May 21, 2013 Author Share Posted May 21, 2013 Alright I mean from the interactions we've had she seems interested but I guess this will make it clear Link to comment
M2411 Posted May 22, 2013 Author Share Posted May 22, 2013 This girl is so confusing can't tell if she's interested or not Link to comment
Gimpyrks Posted May 22, 2013 Share Posted May 22, 2013 I would ask her that if she would be interested in a date when you are in town good thing about summer is that if she does reject you, the akward phase should pass over summer Link to comment
M2411 Posted May 23, 2013 Author Share Posted May 23, 2013 Alright I mean I'm really not sure if she's even interested or not but should I just ask her anyway Link to comment
byanilla Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 Ask her on a date. She seems interested. In the beginning, she didn't seem interested. She seemed distant because she was distrustful and hesitant. Probably after confronting with some other people, she probably started talking to you more because she thought, Oh, this guy doesn't just want to hook up with me. So, express genuine interest and concern for her, and she'll ease up to you. Link to comment
M2411 Posted May 27, 2013 Author Share Posted May 27, 2013 Alright that's kinda what I was thinking. And what about this I bought four tickets for a concert in June that my best friend and two other mutual friends were gonna go too the other two backed out so I have two extra tickets so my friend and I are each gonna invite someone so should I ask her if she would be interested in going ? Link to comment
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